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What is Cognitive Dissonance and How Do You Reduce it?

What is Cognitive Dissonance and How Do You Reduce it?

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Understand Cognitive Dissonance and How to Overcome It

Cognitive dissonance is an inner conflict which arises when we try to comprehend two incompatible concepts at the same time. This psychological tension is unlike hypocrisy, where our actions don't match our words, but is instead a conflict between our thinking and beliefs. Understanding this idea helps us better cope with the discrepancies between thoughts, beliefs, and values that are common in our daily lives.

What Causes Cognitive Dissonance?

Cognitive dissonance is often the result of comparisons to our own past beliefs, the beliefs of others, and personal decisions we make. Anything from large social issues to individual choices can create a conflict of thoughts that can result in cognitive dissonance. This feeling of inner tension can be addressed by exploring alternative perspectives, rationalizing any conflicting beliefs, or recognizing that the differences may not have an impact.

Cognitive dissonance should not be confused with cognitive bias, which is the tendency to make quick judgments based on insufficient information and can be lessened through exposure to unbiased sources. Cognitive dissonance, however, occurs when we clash with our own thoughts and beliefs, so we must address this on our own terms.

Examples of Cognitive Dissonance

Cognitive dissonance is a part of everyday life, so it's important to be aware of potential examples. Consider these common situations where cognitive dissonance can occur:

  • Eating meat - If an individual values the protection of animals but still eats meat for convenience or health reasons, this could cause inner tension.
  • Dieting (or Cheating on a Diet) - If someone wants to eat healthily but is drawn to comfort foods like ice cream, they may experience dissonance between their wants and needs.
  • Smoking - Most people understand the harmful effects of smoking, yet if someone chooses to smoke, they may feel cognitive dissonance.

What Can We Do to Manage Cognitive Dissonance?

The first step to managing cognitive dissonance is to recognize what it is and the feelings it can result in. Focusing on personal growth and looking for ways to invest in yourself can be an effective way to begin to address this internal conflict. It's important to be open to considering the conflicting beliefs, and to allow yourself to take a step back and look at the situation from another angle. Cognitive dissonance can be uncomfortable, but understanding it can help ease the dissonance and allow you to make positive changes that are in line with your personal values.

Understanding Cognitive Dissonance: Causes, Effects, and How to Manage it

Making changes in our lives can be both exciting and stressful. If we're presented with new information that challenges our current beliefs, it can cause us to experience psychological discomfort known as cognitive dissonance. It can be difficult to overcome if the issue is an addiction, due to the chemical dependency that the substance creates. Understanding how to handle and cope with cognitive dissonance is key to making positive changes.

Living with cognitive dissonance can be difficult, but evidence shows that if it's processed in the right way it can have positive effects. One study found that participants that spoke to an audience in order to encourage a certain positive action, felt hypocritical at first, but then was more motivated to continue with their intention. This demonstrates how cognitive dissonance can be a source of motivation and can lead to positive changes.

Signs of Cognitive Dissonance

It affects everyone differently, but here are some common signs that can indicate cognitive dissonance:

  • Feeling out of alignment with values, beliefs, and commitments
  • Hinders our psychological well-being
  • Underlying discomfort
  • Difficulty processing information due to conflicting experiences

Tips to Manage Cognitive Dissonance

Making positive changes to align ourselves with our true values can be difficult, but there are some helpful tips we can follow:

  • Check-in with your emotions and feelings
  • Don't shy away from the dissonance, let yourself process it
  • Understand what you need to change and why
  • Get support from external resources, books, and support groups

Cognitive dissonance can be an unpleasant experience, but it can also be an opportunity to grow and be more in-tune with our true values. Gaining a better understanding of the underlying causes of cognitive dissonance can help us live an authentic and fulfilling life.

Forgive Yourself and Start Investing in Yourself

Rather than punishing ourselves for feeling cognitive dissonance, we should embrace it as a tool to help us become more self-aware. A coach can be particularly useful for navigating the stages of behavior change. As humans, our contradictions are a normal part of life, so it's important to approach them with curiosity and grace, even if we want to make changes. Cognitive dissonance is a personal growth tool that can help us stay aligned to our desires and values, but remember we don't need to go through it alone.

It's important to distinguish between cognitive bias and cognitive dissonance as they are two separate behavioral sciences. Cognitive bias is the tendency to make decisions based on preconceived notions, rather than facts. Dissonance was first proposed by Leon Festinger in the 1950s and states that it is caused by conflicting beliefs, ideas, or values. Investing in yourself by becoming more aware of your thoughts and internal dialogue is key to reducing the discomfort cognitive dissonance can cause. Through self-reflection and talking to a coach or mentor, we can become better equipped to identify cognitive dissonance and make decisions with confidence.

Discovering Clarity and Purpose

Gaining new insight can be a powerful tool to help you grow and experience an array of new perspectives. With this knowledge, you are able to manifest a stronger sense of purpose, clarity, and passion. You don't need to feel overwhelmed by the internal struggle since there is always support available. A coach can help you make sense of your patterns, rediscover the internal compass, cultivate self-awareness, and even find humor in the journey.

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